Wait a beat.
A breath. A minute. A night’s sleep. A stroll. A kiss.
Always hit the pause button. [Read more…] about Press Pause
No One Will Notice
No one gives a fuck about you or notices the little details you tend to hone in on.
For far too long I was self-conscious, harboring this silly fear of being embarrassed. [Read more…] about No One Will Notice
Every So Often, Fart
Growing up, I had my fair share of stomachaches.
It probably didn’t help that I enjoyed drinking red wine vinegar from the bottle and putting hot sauce on pretty much everything, but there was another major factor.
I didn’t know how to fart. [Read more…] about Every So Often, Fart
Me and the WWE
People are often surprised to learn that I watch WWE.
They don’t seem to expect that behavior from an “educated professional.”
Whatever. Most people judge, it’s what they do. [Read more…] about Me and the WWE
Start Small
The road to success is always the same: build a foundation of mini habits, hold yourself accountable at regular intervals, and grind, grind, grind.
That’s it. Stop thinking and just do something small. Now. Like, right now. [Read more…] about Start Small
Decide. Commit. Repeat.
Make a decision and commit to it. Equanimity 101.
Spending time waffling back-and-forth is nothing but wasted time and energy that ramps up anticipatory anxiety. [Read more…] about Decide. Commit. Repeat.
Just Write
When in doubt, write.
You can write about anything. You can write about the day’s events, covering every nook and cranny in finite detail. Or you can write about a trip you once took.
Fiction. Nonfiction. Memoir. Whatever. It doesn’t matter. [Read more…] about Just Write
The Nervous Next Door Passenger
On a recent flight, I was sitting next to my worst nightmare.
The Old Me.
As usual, I came prepared: lists of things to do, tons of content and a good mindset. However, before takeoff, when the guy next to me kept popping up in his seat and shaking his legs and shifting around his body weight, I knew I was in for a challenge.
[Read more…] about The Nervous Next Door Passenger
Repeat After Me: It’s Okay to Not Want More
I’m motivated. I was born that way.
I don’t say that to brag, I say it, to admit that sometimes, I think it works against me.
A calm and relaxed life is often accepting what is. Living in the present moment, which necessitates NOT thinking about wanting, working and planning for “more.”
[Read more…] about Repeat After Me: It’s Okay to Not Want More
Expand Your World
I’ll save you all the cliches. Just get out there and do something different. Experience something new. Get the fuck out of your comfort zone, and be rewarded for it so many ways almost every time. [Read more…] about Expand Your World