It all starts with a deep breath.
Tips and tricks to stay even-tempered
“Things happen, that’s all they ever do.” –Dawes
I’m different, and that’s okay. In fact, it’s more than okay. It’s perfect.
Since I was a teenager, Brian Wilson’s line, “I just wasn’t made for these times,” always resonated with me. [Read more…] about (Don’t) Ghost the Universe
Wait a beat.
A breath. A minute. A night’s sleep. A stroll. A kiss.
Always hit the pause button. [Read more…] about Press Pause
No one gives a fuck about you or notices the little details you tend to hone in on.
For far too long I was self-conscious, harboring this silly fear of being embarrassed. [Read more…] about No One Will Notice
Growing up, I had my fair share of stomachaches.
It probably didn’t help that I enjoyed drinking red wine vinegar from the bottle and putting hot sauce on pretty much everything, but there was another major factor.
I didn’t know how to fart. [Read more…] about Every So Often, Fart
People are often surprised to learn that I watch WWE.
They don’t seem to expect that behavior from an “educated professional.”
Whatever. Most people judge, it’s what they do. [Read more…] about Me and the WWE
The road to success is always the same: build a foundation of mini habits, hold yourself accountable at regular intervals, and grind, grind, grind.
That’s it. Stop thinking and just do something small. Now. Like, right now. [Read more…] about Start Small
Make a decision and commit to it. Equanimity 101.
Spending time waffling back-and-forth is nothing but wasted time and energy that ramps up anticipatory anxiety. [Read more…] about Decide. Commit. Repeat.
When in doubt, write.
You can write about anything. You can write about the day’s events, covering every nook and cranny in finite detail. Or you can write about a trip you once took.
Fiction. Nonfiction. Memoir. Whatever. It doesn’t matter. [Read more…] about Just Write
On a recent flight, I was sitting next to my worst nightmare.
The Old Me.
As usual, I came prepared: lists of things to do, tons of content and a good mindset. However, before takeoff, when the guy next to me kept popping up in his seat and shaking his legs and shifting around his body weight, I knew I was in for a challenge.
[Read more…] about The Nervous Next Door Passenger
I’m motivated. I was born that way.
I don’t say that to brag, I say it, to admit that sometimes, I think it works against me.
A calm and relaxed life is often accepting what is. Living in the present moment, which necessitates NOT thinking about wanting, working and planning for “more.”
[Read more…] about Repeat After Me: It’s Okay to Not Want More
